You've been dumped. Sadly, it's just as painful as it sounds. You never really realized how much it would hurt until it happened to you. Now you can't think of anything but the moment your guy told you that he didn't want to be with you anymore. The one question that keeps running through your mind is, "why did my boyfriend break up with me?" You wish you had an answer and he's not telling you the reason why he left. There are actually several common reasons why men end their relationship. Once you understand what these are it can help you move forward.
When most women ask the question, "why did my boyfriend break up with me," they assume the answer will involve another woman. They believe that he was so overcome with attraction for someone new that he had to abruptly end the current relationship. He didn't. In fact, the chances that your boyfriend wanted someone else so much that he tossed you aside are very slim. Men generally don't end a current relationship for another woman unless a break up was already something they've been considering.
One of the common reasons why break ups occur is boredom. If your boyfriend started to feel that your relationship was becoming routine, he may have decided that you just weren't the right woman for him. In dating relationships men don't want to feel as though they're married. They want vibrant and exciting experiences. They want their girlfriend to be spontaneous and unpredictable. If your boyfriend doesn't feel challenged by you or he feels that you're too predictable, breaking up is something he may feel is necessary.
Another reason why he may have decided to dump you is you have been pushing for more than he's been willing to give. There's a fine balance in a dating relationship between satisfaction and wanting more. If you have fallen deeply in love with him it's natural for you to want more of a commitment. If he's not ready to give that to you and you push for it, he'll pull back. Men don't want to feel pressured into a more serious relationship than they're ready for.
Lastly, if you two have ongoing conflict in your relationship that can easily lead to a break up as well. Men don't always deal effectively with conflict because they can be just as sensitive as we are. If there was an issue that was pulling you two apart and you just couldn't come to any type of mutual resolution, that may have been enough to make him want to end the relationship just so he could escape the emotional turmoil.