What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back After a Breakup?

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We've been dating for more than a year and then suddenly she tells me she needs space. She says I'm smothering her. She wants time apart. I feel like I was just given notice "don't call me; I'll call you." Thing is, I still love her. I want her back. How can I get my ex back after a breakup like that? Is it even possible?

Breaking up is tough. It's one of the most difficult things a person can experience in a relationship. Just because one person decides the relationship is over doesn't mean that you can just turn everything off and pretend the relationship never happened.

You have to go through the process of healing after a breakup but right now all you can think about is the pain you're feeling. You know what will make it stop. You have to get your ex back. You just don't know how.

Here is the first thing you should do if you really want to get your ex back after a breakup.

Give her what she wants.


You're probably staring at the computer with a stunned link on your face right about now. Really, there is method to this madness. She wants the relationship to end. You should agree with her that it's time for the relationship to end and walk away.

Don't ask for a second chance. Don't tell her you'll do better. And whatever you do right now, DON'T let her see you cry. Let her believe you're both on the same page and that you believe the relationship is over just as much as she does.

Then you need to turn around and walk away. If you live together, send someone else to collect your things or arrange a time when she won't be there to come and get them. You want to be as absent from her life as possible while you set your ultimate plan to get your ex back into motion.

By letting her win this small battle you will be in a much better position to win the war for her heart. That's what you want after all. You want to make her fall in love with you all over again. Or, at least, you want her to remember the love you shared and why it's too good to pass up. You want to make her want you back in her life as much as you want her back in yours.

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This article was published on 2011/05/19
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