No two people are alike. Every one of us is unique in our own little ways. There are people who have strong personality, these are the people who have developed and experienced hardships and learned from them at a young age. There are also the unfortunate ones, the people who have a weak personality. Behavioral scientists have proved that a person with weak personality (low self-esteem, morale, low effectiveness) can be transformed into a successful personality.
It's not too late to transform yourself. We should accept some of the harsh realities and the not-so- sweet facts of life, which are generally, learnt the hard way. Transforming yourself means changing what is unlikely. You can change yourself by improving your behavioral traits. In order for us to have a good interpersonal relationship we should start first on improving our own self. If you think you are easily irritated by small and petty problems in your life, maybe it's time for you to have a positive attitude towards life. Always think that problems is just part of life, we can never survived in this world if not for hardships. In every person's life there are period when negative thoughts come to mind. The fear of failing and not doing well is such one thought. It is important to overcome these thoughts. Being a negative thinker will definitely put us down, so to change it, always look for positive sides of everything. The following are worry free steps to follow:
Always think that God is always there to support you. Convince yourself that everyone is there to support every decision you make. Always remember that no one is perfect, it's all right to commit mistakes from time to time.
Cultivate friendship with the people whom you think will support you in every good things that you will do.
Think positive. Always have faith in your abilities
Hope for the best. We could change our negative thoughts by expecting that better days are coming.
Focus on your strength. God has given everyone of us different talent. Focus on your strengths, on what you can do best not on your weaknesses.
The second stage of transforming yourself is by changing our attitudes towards interpersonal relationship. The effectiveness of a person is dependent on his capability to deal with people. Self-Analysis helps a person to improve any relationship to a great extent. There are some ways by which we can establish good relationship with other people. These are the following
Exercise Patience with others.
Do not let your ego affect your relationship.
Never talk negatively about others. We must refrain from saying bad things about a person behind his back. Backstabbing is not a healthy habit. It will ruin your relationship with others.
The above information is just some of the ways by which you can transform yourself. In the world we live in, trials do come unexpectedly so in order to overcome it, strong personality is needed so as not to be defeated by the challenges of life.