Should I Even Try to Get My Ex Back or Just Walk Away?

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We dated for several months. I fell head over heels in love with my ex. Now my ex has broken up with me and I feel like my world has been torn completely apart. Should I even try to get my ex back or just walk away with what's left of my heart?

This is not an easy place to find yourself or your heart. No one enjoys being dumped. But that being dumped doesn't necessarily mean it's the end for your relationship. There are things you can do to get your ex back and make your relationship work. The big question is whether that's the route you should go or if you should just walk away with your heart broken once rather than taking the risk of having it broken again.

Reasons to Walk Away from Your Relationship

There are many different reasons to consider walking way from your relationship and calling it quits. If these apply to you or your situation then it might be the best choice for you after all.

You love your ex more than he/she loves you.
Your relationship has a lot more down times than up times.
You or your ex is abusive either verbally, emotionally, or physically.
You don't feel happy when you're together.
You can't see your ex in your life twenty years down the road.

It may seem a bit harsh but some relationships just aren't meant to be. But there are times when it's worth taking a second look and going back for a second chance at romance.

Reasons to Get Your Ex Back and Make Your Relationship Work

There are plenty of excellent reasons to consider second chances in relationships just as there are a few reasons for making the painful decision to walk away sometimes.

Here are just a few reasons to stay you might want to consider.

You love your ex and know your ex loves you.
You have had more good times than bad as a couple.
You believe, deep down inside, that you are stronger together than you could ever be apart.
You really did look forward to seeing your ex at the end of every day.
You can't imagine growing old or living the rest of your life without your ex in it.

Seriously, if you can't imagine sitting side by side in your rocking your chairs watching the sunset when you're ninety then why bother, right? You know the relationship is worth saving though when you can't imagine facing that sunset with anyone other than your ex by your side.

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This article was published on 2011/05/16