Your love life seem dried up and in a rut? Every thing seems to taste the same, smell the same and look the same? You dream of those romantic days of old with your hand under the dinner table at the Italian restaurant on a Saturday? Wish you could relive those Friday nights kissing her goodnight as you say good night at her doorstep? We've all been there and it feels awful. So how do we break out of the cycle?
Well, if when you want different results it's best sometimes to simply try a new approach, attempt something unique and fun that will thrust one quick jolt of romantic electricity into your love life. This is where your kitchen comes to the rescue! That's right- your kitchen!
Surprise your girlfriend or wife with something she wouldn't expect and that is so enticing and delightful she can't resist feeling those romantic juices pumping through her heart. With a few easy recipes and a eye-catching, or jaw-dropping message, you'll have your partner gyrating with excitement.
Picture this scenario, she's tensely sitting at her desk at work, wading through the piles of paper, frantically searching for her stapler while trying to quickly respond to her annoying emails and IMs, then all of a sudden her coworker stops by and says, "You have a surprise package waiting for pick up at the security desk." She arrives to the desk with a smile on her face, opens the mysterious box and finds decadent-looking chocolate covered strawberries inside with a note that reads, "This time you can try the dessert first, but you'll have to wait 'til this weekend to enjoy the main course. Put on your best dress this Friday because I have another surprise in store for you.
Think that will perk up her spirits a bit and create a lot of curiosity about the upcoming date?
If you and your husband are running around in circles with the same stale routine of eating dinner then watching a movie on the squeaky couch maybe you could try something more daring. Have his mind spinning in circles with a more kinky approach. On a Friday place a slice of his favorite cherry cheesecake or apple pie with whipped cream on top in a decorative box and a red ribbon on top, only remove part of the cream and smear some of it by the edge. Then put an arousing note underneath the plate that reads something like, "Don't get too full on this treat sweetie. You'll have to lick the rest of the cream off me later tonight," with a red lipstick kiss mark stuck on the paper. The ribbon and the lipstick won't be the only red thing, his face will turn beet red in seconds and he'll rush home as soon the clock hits its final hour.
Be creative with the note and choose a dessert you're capable of making. There are plenty of easy recipes to choose from or you could order an item online and have it delivered for you. If dropping off the dessert to work is tricky think of a creative way of leaving it at home or having it delivered to the house. Little ideas like the ones in this article are just two examples of how little gifts could be all that are needed to get the ball rolling again in a relationship. Have fun!