Marriage Secrets Revealed - Fix a Broken Relationship

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If you want to save a broken relationship, the first thing you must do is consider whether or not the relationship is really worth fixing in the first place. Are your feelings for her temporary or permanent? Did he make you feel wonderful one minute and terrible the next or did you simply take him for granted? These are not questions to be answered quickly. Think about everything you two experienced together. Was he always there for you, making you assume he would always be around? Did you ignore her when she said she needed you to simply hold her or listen to her day? What put you in a situation where you are trying desperately to save a broken relationship?

Concentrating on the other person's positive qualities is the best wave to save a broken relationship. When she puts a sticky note that says "I love you" on your steering wheel, appreciate it. She is showing her ability to be spontaneous, considerate and compassionate. When he takes out the garbage, even if you had to ask, thank him. We must show gratitude constantly toward those we love if you want to keep them around and not end up reading about how to save a broken relationship again.

I can already hear some of you saying, "But Rose, I did those things and he or she still walked out or is threatening to leave!" There are far too many circumstances surrounding each individual case for me to make a blanket statement that will satisfy everyone.

However, if this is the case, there are two things which you must ask yourself:

1) Did I really make sure to express my love and appreciation for the other person several times each day in both word and deed? If so, would I be looking for advice on how to save a broken relationship?

2) Am I dedicated enough to save a broken relationship with this person? Meaning, am I willing to do whatever it takes?

Should you decide to pursue this, realize that you already know how to save a broken relationship. What are his insecurities? What does she need to make her feel validated? There is a difference between making your partner smile and making their eyes shine with delight. If she is a bookworm, you can purchase a difficult-to-find first edition of her favorite book. If he has strong ties to his family, you can get him a subscription to a genealogy website.

The key to save a broken relationship is to ensure you really know this person. Pick something special, sacred and beloved to your partner and go out of your way to show them that it is important to you because it is important to them. This also shows that you care enough about them to want to save a broken relationship. You may have to do this a few times to get past any cynicism that has built up.

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Friends and family (including her own parents) have been going to Rose for advice since she was a child. After years of marriage and being a mother, she decided to offer her knowledge and experience to the world as a way to help slow the rising tide of breakups and divorce. Go to http://www.marriagesecretsrevealed.com and ask her anything that is on your mind. If she does not know the answer, she will find it for you and share the knowledge with others who need help in their relationships.

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This article was published on 2010/03/30
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