Keep Control of Your Relationship - Ensure the Power is Fairly Shared

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Sometimes, it is necessary to discuss how to be in control of your relationship. Because in fact, some people have some freaks in controling others. This means that they want to have everything done their way. Or else. If you fall in this case, what can you do to improve your relationship?

 

Are You Encouraging Him in a Bad Way?


Sometimes someone will offer the dating advice of doing things his way and talking about the things he likes. This is great dating advice. But it has to be balanced.

If you want to be in control of your relationship, you need to also talk about things that you enjoy talking about, and insist on doing things that you enjoy doing. If you have given up your own identity in order to make him fall in love with you, perhaps you have encouraged a bad habit.

 

Encourage Him in a Good Way


If you want to make him your boyfriend / husband / soul mate /lover, stop agreeing with everything he says. When he says no to something you would like to do, tell him how important it is to you. Be kind. Be gentle. But be firm also. This is how to be in control of your relationship.

 

Grab That Steering Wheel From His Hand


The next time he wants to do something but you want to make other plans, remind him that the both of you did things his way last time. If you want to be in control of your relationship, he needs to understand that it is not all about him.

 

Are You Afraid?


Are you afraid that he will not love you if you want to be in control of your relationship? If he dumps you or breaks up with you because you think that you also are important, this is not the man for you. He is a selfish user.

 

You Can Do This


Remember that this relationship is about you also. Take a deep breath. Be firm. Be kind. But be in control of your relationship

 

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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This article was published on 2010/08/10
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