How to Win Ex Girlfriend Back - An Apology Would Help

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It a funny old thing when you don't know what you've got till its gone huh? Well that's exactly what has happened to you and I am also pretty certain that you never saw it coming... It hit you like a punch in the face and now you are reeling in the aftermath of having lost your lover and your best friend with an hour.

What on earth is a guy to do when he discovers all these years that his girlfriend was never actually truly happy when she was with you. Even though you thought that the relationship couldn't have been any better. I mean if you never saw it coming how are you now supposed to turn it all around while in the process having no contact with your girlfriend to talk about things.

Men are having these same problems all over the world so I would suggest now that you do not freak out, there is a way guys to find out how you messed up and what to do about it!

You want to know the reason why she was so unhappy and why you were completely obliviously causing your relationship to spiral out of control? The reason is that men and women keep score completely differently causing massive problems as far as communication and fulfilment. What a women is seeking out of a relationship is actually quite different from what a man is seeking.

My bet is guys that you may have been the knight in shining armour at one stage in the relationship but through all your best efforts you failed to fulfil one basic need all girls, women, sisters and wives crave!

Appreciation!

Women crave appreciation... Men crave Admiration

And it is really as simple as that, your wife or ex girlfriend did not feel like the things that she did for you were appreciated, like she might as well have not been there. Now this does not mean that all you have to do is say every day "love, I really appreciated what you do for me" or though this would go a long way. It's a little trickier than that however that's the basic idea that you have to change about the way your comments actions and conversational tone comes across.

I hope that this has shed some light on the actions that you took in your relationship that perhaps lead to your ex girlfriend feeling left out, alone or unappreciated. Your next plan of action is look back at the relationship and pick out key moments you can remember that your actions lead to her unfulfilment. Write them down and study why is was that you did what you did.

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This article was published on 2010/04/02
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