If you are one of those who can’t move on and is stuck with that miserable feeling after the break-up with your former girlfriend, then it is a strong indication that you are still madly in love with her. But is there still hope for you even if your ex girlfriend is now with another guy? Sure there is! Don’t abandon hope because that is what you’ll be clinging on amidst the difficult obstacle that lies ahead.
Seeing that she has indeed moved on, especially with a new guy can be too heart-wrenching and it may give you that idea as though any probability the two getting back together is now formally vanished. That essentially relies on the several factors and you will most definitely be surprised by how wide your influence remains over her. Perhaps your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend but you want her back so badly that you’re willing to risk anything, don’t be impulsive! All you need to do is carefully plan everything you speak and do.
Don’t get too emotional. This will ruin the chances of the two of you getting back together. Maybe right now, your heart tells you to call her up and justify why her new boyfriend isn’t right for her. Don’t you ever do that! It will only show how miserable you really are, a major turn-off. Justifying everything you think is wrong with her new boyfriend will make you appear envious that she’s happy and you’re not. Chances are, she's also anticipating this feedback from you. A much better and much more effective approach is to wish them well, or even ask what her new boyfriend is like, and drop the subject.
Maintaining your friendship after a break up is ordinary, predominantly in cases where the man and woman became very close not only to each other, but to their families and friends as well. If such is the case between you and your ex, don't be surprised if she calls you up time and again to talk about her life. As anticipated, the new boyfriend will become a topic. Again, graciously listening and then offering some general advice is the safest means to make her keep on talking to you. Try to be her confidante. Her talking about the new relationship with you is essentially a good sign that indicates how much trusts you. Build that trust for you to rely on that later on for your schemes.
However, don’t be too available for her each time she wants to communicate with you. Putting yourself into that situation she won’t miss you. Make her feel that she’s not the center of your attention anymore and that there are more important things compared to her. So, pick and choose when you want to be available to her. Eventually, she’ll ask you out for a coffee to catch up, still, don't go every time. Just gently tell her that you already got other plans and don't talk too much on that. It will leave her questioning about your activities, suggesting that she's not the most important thing to you right now. As soon as she senses that, she'll recall how great it felt like to be the focal point of your life. Let her feel that since it's the first step to getting her back.
Many women start dating almost immediately after a break up and that relationships are most likely to be short lived, since the new boyfriend is usually the scapegoats. They just want to feel loved again and not to feel empty. How you react to her new boyfriend shouldn't be what she expects from you; be pleasant and respectful about it, and guarantee you're not always wanting to see her. These steps alone will straighten out the path for you to and greatly help you win her back.
Your actions after your breakup will either decide for a reunion with your girlfriend or will ensure she's gone from you forever. Never give her the chance to think negatively of you, make a good impact with the woman you love. If you really need and want her the abovementioned tips will build a chance of the two of you getting back together. There are sure-fire ways to get her back despite the reasons of why you two split. If you're tired of feeling heartbroken and if you're worried about her meeting a new guy, now is the time to win her back for good.