OK, so it happened. Mistakes were made, misunderstandings and disagreements abound, emphasizing small cracks in your once seemingly perfect relationship until that ultimately led to the break-up.
So what happens now? If you really want things right and you want him back into your loving arms. Here are some helpful tips to send you on your way.
Start with you. To really solve any relationship problem you must determine what it was. Take a hard, honest look at your relationship, yourself and everything that seemed to go so wrong. You may not have been guilty and perhaps break up was more because of his problems, if so, there may be little you can do to save it. But if on the other hand, you may recognize some mistakes you made and learn from them, there is a good chance things could work out.
And while you are dying to do something for him to show how dedicated you are, and how much you want take care of him, wait!
First, be the best "you" can be in the beauty and styling services. If all those sleepless nights and crying spells made you unattractive, do something about it. Show him the beauty that he once fell in love with. Be natural about, and when you meet again, he might just want to talk to you right there and then.
Friends can be very influential in one's decisions. When you see them, show them your good side and explain your side of the story without sounding overly dramatic, needy, or defensive. From here, leave them to their own decisions. You don't want to be perceived as needy or pushy. Their comments about you'll make a big impact on your boyfriend's decision.
Bring back the woman he fell in love with. If you are the kind of person who enjoyed eating street food when you were together at the beginning of the relationship, then bring her back into the scene. In other words, be consistent. Change is inevitable in life, and always strive to change for the better.
Be optimistic in all situations. No hint of pessimism, depression and imbalance on your part can quickly and completely derail your attempts to reconcile. They only weaken your efforts to bridge the gap - so avoid them at all costs. Positivity is contagious and attractive. Own it and your light will shine through.
Reserve a bit for yourself. Before embarking on a quest to win his heart again, be sure to leave a little dignity for yourself too. There is no harm in showing your love and affection for that certain someone, but looking like an idiot or stalker while doing so is another story. Respect yourself and he will respect you too.
Last, but certainly not least, ask yourself this very important question,
"Do I really want him back?"
"The dedication and commitment you express will help your decision. If you discover that your efforts are not compensated, perhaps you're not doing enough. Review your actions and feelings. Every action you take reflects what's in you. If you don't think you can win him back, and if you don't truly want to win him back, you won't.
Love is never easy. It never has been. But by following the above techniques you can use the opportunity to save yours. Just remember not to let your emotions dictate your actions. Be the best you can be, open and honest. Be a good listener and hopefully before long you'll have your husband/boyfriend back into your arms again.