How to Keep a Long Distance Relationship Exciting?

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Handling a relationship is never an easy thing to do.  It requires a lot of things for it to work and to survive.  Imagine doing these things far from each other?  Do you think it's possible to keep a long distance relationship work? Nothing is impossible.  But, is this relationship can be as exciting as when the two of you is together?  It can be. Here are some ways on how to keep a long distance exciting.

  1. Use all the possible communication ways to be with each other. May it be snail mail, e-mail, or even chat; you need to continuously communicate. Make it a habit to send text massages as if you just live a few blocks away. Cyberspace is now the new place for people to stay close.  You have to take advantage of that and I'm sure that you will feel like she just lives next door. Chat for hours and talk face to face by using a web cam. You can always make things fun and exciting using the web cam.  Play some online games, like hangman and make it more interesting by making it a strip hangman.  The one that loses has to remove an item of clothing. It will not only be fun it will also make both your evenings steamy.  Internet makes everything close so, use it to continuously be in each other's side even when you are miles apart.
  2. Send each other gifts.  It will make your girl feel appreciated once she receives something from you. It doesn't have to be expensive.  Simple things can make your girl feel that you are just a phone call away. Make it romantic by sending intimate gifts like lingerie that you would love to see her wear. You can add a message that you will be looking forward to seeing it on her. She will have something to look forward to and it will make her feel better even if she is a thousand miles away. How to keep a long distance relationship exciting is not easy but there are always creative ways to make everything plausible and bearable.
  3. Have something to look forward to. Plan a get together that both of you will definitely enjoy. It could be a vacation on a different country or you can have a weekend getaway on a beach or a mountain longhouse. This will definitely help replenish the relationship.  If you have something to look forward to, time tends to fly. Plan this together, and make everything as memorable as possible. This will definitely help you pass the rough times.
  4. Do things together. It doesn't mean that since you no longer live near each other, you can't have a good time together, right? So why not go out with your friends for an evening of fun. Keep each other posted of what is happening and compare notes on what the latest news are on each other's side of fun. You can plan on what you will do once you or your girl visits. You can also try watching the same program while discussing about its good and bad points on the phone.

Being far from each other doesn't mean that you can no longer do what you usually enjoy together.  You just have to be more enthusiastic in doing things. Distance might make others forget.  But all of these depend on how much you want your relationship to work. How to keep a long distance relationship exciting? I believe that you just have to make the best of what you have and exert some more efforts and make everything a wee bit creative.


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This article was published on 2010/10/15
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