We have a tendency to take the good times for granted, so as we're sitting there on the couch devastated because our relationship is over the "bad times" suddenly don't seem so bad. You start realizing that there was so much you could do to keep your relationship from falling apart. If you're ready to get back together with your ex girlfriend I've got some advice for you. These tips to get ex girl back are easy to follow and very effective.
The first thing that I recommend doing is cutting off communication with your ex. When you're calling or texting her all the time she knows she's got you under her thumb. Obviously you're more upset about the breakup than she is and that's what makes it easier for her to handle. She can't miss you unless you go away; I know it's a fascinating concept so give it a try!
While you're torturing yourself by staying away from the phone use this time to reflect upon yourself. What was it that ruined your relationship in the first place? What can you do differently to change things the next time around? You should have answers for both of these questions, and hopefully they make sense. Learning from mistakes is the only way you're going to get through this. And your ex is going to learn from hers as well, so don't worry.
If you want to appeal to your ex again you have to do some work, on yourself. Start with your attitude and the way you treat others you may be surprised at how upset women can get when they feel ignored or like their partner doesn't care what they have to say. The only way you're going to have a successful, healthy relationship is if you both have the ability to communicate. If this isn't your strong point don't panic.
How did you dress when you first started dating? Probably to impress her, well start doing that again. Get your hair done, take good care of your hygiene, and make sure you're looking good when you leave the house. It's the little things that count, and when she does see you again she's going to notice that you've been putting out some effort.
When you do feel ready to talk to your ex again have some tact. Calling her up isn't the best approach. Talking to her directly is a great way to lose focus, you may start talking about the relationship or getting back together. Two things that are going to turn her off. Sit down and write a letter. Start out by saying that you're doing well and hanging out with some old friends, hope she's doing good in her life, you've evaluated the relationship and you see where things went wrong, sorry that it ended the way it did, and you value her friendship. It doesn't have to be this way exactly, but it's helpful to keep some sort of structure.