Getting your ex back is impossible? Maybe not if you do it in the right way. Reading the guidance below and follow the advice step by step, your split could be fixed immediately!
Take heart that the pain will subside with time even though it may not seem like it right now. Things do get better.
The first thing to do is to not contact your ex. When things are heated and haven't had a chance to cool down for a bit, you are only going to do more damage and ruin your chances of getting them back. You are not in the right mind set to rationally deal with your ex, so it is best to stay away for a while and let the situation rest for a bit.
If your ex contacts you, politely tell them you need some space right now and try to keep the phone conversation as short as you can. You can let them know that they can contact you if they want to talk about the relationship, but you don't want to end up in the "friend zone", because once you do it close to impossible to get out.
The second thing to do is start living life for yourself. Picture it as a sort of vacation where you get to do what you want. Talk some steps to better yourself. Hit the gym, eat good, hang out with your friends. Don't turn to drinking to alleviate your pain as it will only hurt, not help.
By taking these steps you are building up your confidence and this will help when your ex eventually calls (and they always do, I promise). You need to be in the right frame of mind to communicate to your ex.
If you follow these simple steps, you can go a long way towards getting your ex back.