Nothing hurts quite as much as a loss of a relationship. It will usually bring up feelings of anger and frustration as well as remorse and in extreme situations it can bring about the first signs of depression. Getting an ex back can be a tricky process.
However, there is a small, but noticeable difference between a "breakup" and a "break" in your relationship, it all comes down to how you handle the situation. As with many "cures" there are steps you need to follow if you want the best possible chance of getting back with your ex or soon-to-be ex. One step you must follow, even if you think it is the most impossible thing to do.
When you start to feel all those emotions that travel through out your body, like anger and forgetting who you are without your 'other half' whilst being apart for a short amount of time, you may feel tempted to contact your ex and try to rekindle your relationship. Well, this is where I tell you to STOP! do not, I repeat, do not make contact with your ex, this could be the one of the worst things you can do just after a break up and may destroy and progress you have made with them. If you call your ex, your chances at getting back with them will drop rapidly, you must hold off.
Instead, what you can do is take the next week or two off to intertwine with your friends and family (yes, getting an ex back will take time), you should go out and have some fun, do not think about your ex, this is your own personal time. Getting involved in these social events and your old hobbies will improve your health, mood and life. You will soon find that you can go anywhere and do anything without thinking about your ex. Noticing that you are still completely sane without them is the feeling that you will hope to achieve.
Once this is in effect, all your stars will align and your chances will be on the increase.