Make a memorable Christmas! Consider planning a party themed with something fun and unique. Your happiness depends upon how you handle yourself. It will also depend on how you'll manage to deal with the situations you are in. Holiday for single people can be fun if you focus on enjoying it.
Another option if you don't want to be alone at Christmas is to go on a trip. You can take a singles cruise, either by yourself or with another single friend. There are tons of activities (nightlife, offshore excursions, etc.) being offered in cruises. This is an excellent idea you can consider if this is your first Christmas alone after divorce .
If you love the snow, then why not go skiing or snowboarding. There are a lot of ski resorts all over North America. But if snow gets you gloomy, you can choose to go where the bright lights are - Las Vegas. People who don't like spending Christmas alone go here. The city is filled with magnificent hotels and casinos, elegant restaurants, impressive shows and wild nightclubs. And let's not forget about Elvis impersonators and endless buffet tables. You won't get lonely in Vegas.
But in case you are a busy person, you can consider staying at home. Just be sure you won't forget to buy some mouth-watering foods and goodies. Christmas could also be just for yourself. And to complete the celebration, give yourself a gift to remember for a lifetime.
You may also consider having a house party with your other single friends. You can choose not to be all alone on Christmas. If they would just stay at home, and you would also do the same, why not get together. Have a Margarita party or a board game night, anything different.
Spread the love! Do charity work and spend the season making you and other people happy at the same time. Don't be afraid that your kids will not be happy on choosing whom they will be spending Christmas with. You may discuss the matter with your ex husband. Exert effort to keep yourself busy. Doing so will make you realize that you did not really spend your first Christmas alone after divorce.