Can You and Your Ex-Partner Get Back Together?

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Be honest with your self. You need to know in your heart, that you will be truly happy if you and your ex get back together and that the relationship will not go the same way it went earlier. After a breakup avoid selective memory about the good times spent together, remember all that happened good and bad.

The truth is that there are very few relationships that are not worth, the trouble taken to save them. If you answer yes to any of the following situations then you can rest assureds that you are lucky you broke up. If you have more memories of fights rather than the fun you had. Your ex was abusive with you, whether verbally or physically. Or if your ex was mentally unstable, then in either case you are better off alone.

On the other hand if you have a horde of happy memories, and your ex was neither abusive nor of unstable mind, then your relationship deserves a second chance. Read on to find out how you and your ex can get back together.

Keep away from them and give them the time and space to miss you in the first place. If you are constantly going to be in touch with your ex, either by calling home or texting messages or by email, you will make them feel claustrophobic and they will wish to be away from you. Don't stalk them or bump into them "accidentally" every now and the. This is not going to help your cause.

You don't need to beg or plead with your ex about the relationship that you had. Don't make yourself feel guilt for what happened. Sometimes when we are alone with our thoughts it is easy to imagine all that you did wrong. In case your ex did mention something you did when they broke up with you, then for your own sake don't wallow in their accusations and think that you are to be blamed for what happened. Stop thinking about the past, be in the present.

You need to accept the fact that you have broken up with your ex and that as of now the relationship is over. There is no magic wand that will wave your past away, you can not undo it. if you can do something worse than calling them all the time, it is to plead with them to take you back. Making high promises to bring about a sea change in you is not going to help you get back together with your ex.

The biggest favor that you can do for yourself is to move away from your ex. Live your own life, be yourself, give them time and space to think about you and start missing you. This will make you more desirable and will add to your happiness and feeling of goodness around you.

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K Huibo used to be heart broken in the relationship crisis with his partner about 3 months ago. He stumbled upon an excellent guide and followed the instructions in it. Now he and his wife are back together and enjoying every moment of their marriage.

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This article was published on 2010/04/02
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