4 Important Questions You Should Ask Your Boyfriend

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I assume you're in a relationship or you intend to be in one. Well, let's talk about real issues that affect you and I every day. These are random questions you should ask in a relationship.

I'm sure you wouldn't want to be in a relationship without knowing where you stand, right? This will help you put what you expect from a relationship on the table as soon as possible.

Here are some of the random questions you should ask your boyfriend or partner.

1.What are your short term goals?

What is it that you want? Are you in it for fun or something serious? Set clear goals to avoid disappointments. This will help you understand where you and your man are going. Do his goals accommodate you? Most of the break-ups today are due to lack of communication.

2.What are your long term goals?

You can work towards improving the relationship if there's a common goal. What if he wants to marry you in ten years time and you want to settle down within two years? These are issues you need to talk about. Be clear from the beginning. Don't be scared to ask a man anything. You would rather lose him now than hurt you later. Test his interest and where he stands.

3.What are your views on the relationship?

I don't have time to share everything but I'm certain that it gives so much confidence to know that your man thinks you're great, intelligent, caring, beautiful and all the good stuff. Be careful not to fall for every flattering word from a man. I will tell you why. Some men and not all can say anything just to take advantage of you because you're young and with less experience. Take time to know them deeply.

4.How do you feel about me?

Make sure you know how he feels about you. Don't get carried away and think the relationship won't end. There's nothing like that. A man who is deeply in love will make decisions that are for your good. Be prepared to answer any random questions your boyfriend may ask.

One very important question you shouldn't ask is about marriage. Wait until the relationship is solid to talk about the wedding. Men get intimidated by such questions and only think you're desperate.

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Agness mumbi has been an author and entrepreneur for the past 5 years. She is interested in relationship issues and has used her experience to help others live life to the full. Visit her blog and learn more about relationships at 4realladiesblog.com

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This article was published on 2010/03/27
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